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She can be superloving and protective with the sibs. I think for a lot of people that was the first sort of "gap" in Marlene. That they felt that she was very different and a lot more down to earth with her family than when she was "on the job" Marlene.
I agree! I'm not sure how Melanie pulls it off but somehow everything - the lighting, the makeup, Marlene's facial expressions and general demeanor - soften in the presence of the Wolf family. No matter how openly vulnerable Marlene tries to be with Tristan, there remains traces of her diva-singer persona. And even though Rebecca gets similar (or maybe even worse treatment), she also gets the Marlene that sat in her empty living room waiting for Rebecca to finish her shower because she didn't want to leave things between them in such disrepair. I know quite a lot of comments were thrown around about the awkward kissing and the love scene that would follow,
but even before that, it's Marlene's absolutely forlorn figure sitting in that empty room that slays me. She could have stormed off because hell, she did exactly that two or three times that same day to Rebecca (and Tristan). But she doesn't. She sits down even though there is a very real chance that Rebecca will try to toss her out again. I wonder what Marlene grappled with as she sat in that empty room. Because the scene that follows next is Marlene removed of her bluster and energy and anger and repression. She is honest. And her eyes are glittering with heat and defeat as she approaches Rebecca. I'm just going to safely assume that no one gets this reaction out of her - not her ex and certainly not her current husband-to-be.
Contrast this to that scene where Marlene ties Tristan's (PURPLEEEE - really, is there any explanation as to why he must absolutely be in that color in every scene) tie - Marlene is vulnerable here too, but still guarded, still forcing a reconciliation, still preserving what she can of their damaged relationship. She is negotiating the amount of honesty she will allow herself.
One more comment about the love scene - what absolutely floored me was all of Marlene's little excited smiles throughout it all. All the unsaid
finally's! that were felt by both. I mean sure, Tristan has gotten his fair share of love scene smiles too...seductive smiles, smiles of pleasure and satisfaction...all those times Tristan would initiate something or Marlene would drop her robe...all of it looked so easy and confident and most of all, controlled. But none of those smiles came close to the kid-on-Christmas-morning-is-this-for-me-could-this-really-be-happening-smiles that Marlene was throwing at Rebecca.
Or how they couldn't get each others clothes off fast enough. And how smooth was replaced with a teenage eagerness to just finally be with each other.
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for all the ways I think that Tristan is too forgiving/too undemanding/to much of a doormat/forgives and forgets too quickly in their relationship, I actually think he's pretty bossy in their job life.
How is this manager-client relationship possibly going to survive when Marlene chooses Rebecca? And lol, he really does push her to do useless things. Like, what was the point (besides being petty) of narrating how Marlene is the perfect flirt and actress while Marlene is doing an interview? If she hadn't acted her way through that meeting with the journalist, then it would be Tristan in trouble and managing the PR aftermath. Though his description did make me realize just how hard it must have been for Rebecca to fight the onslaught of all that "innocent" flirting that Marlene was doing prior to their first kiss.
You know what I've always found mystifying and yet admirable in Rebecca - she has almost wholeheartedly believed that Marlene loves her just as much as she loves Marlene. Right from the start. Like Marlene would dampen her hopes or trample on her feelings, but Rebecca's hope always prevailed. I could never fully understand her ebullient optimism. Was this how Rebecca has always been or was this just her belief in the power of Marbecca?
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But I don't think it was like friendship more like.... kinda Marlene seeing her as part of the entourage maybe? like her favorite servant? And Rebecca being kinda contemptuous of it? => I do sometimes wonder if there wasn't a plan for Marlene/Rebecca back then because you see certain shades of this in story as well, especially with the repeat of the whole wedding dress aspect.
I loved reading your description of old!Becky and Marlene's relationship. I laughed through the scene where Marlene throws herself into old!Becky's arms. Maybe they are trying to flip their dynamics now? Because Rebecca is still pretty "servile" to Marlene, but now she can hold her own and give back as good as she gets (Thank god for this - because I don't think any of us could survive the silently suffering lezzie storyline). And this new self-respecting Rebecca forces Marlene to see her as an equal.
This leads me to a question - Marlene continuously dismisses a relationship with Rebecca - and while I understand her hesitations on a career/image/family/lez standpoint - is it also because Marlene considers Rebecca junior to her - not just in age, but also in wisdom and understanding? Could Marlene actually believe that all of Rebecca's love declarations are just youthful fancies?
And what would you guess is the age difference between Marlene and Rebecca? And that between Tristan and Rebecca? While they have evened the playing field by giving Rebecca a demanding career and position, have they really leveled the status between Marbecca?
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When Rebecca and Marlene meet again they have a really pointless bitch fight over a nothing issue and afterwards Marlene kind of wistfully tells Tristan how much she liked that/how much she enjoyed somebody giving her a real piece of mind rather than treating her with kids gloves.
Haha, do people really treat Marlene with kid gloves? I guess, she does get everything she wants. I laughed through all of Marlene's red-flag comments about how sometimes one needs a girlfriend by their side, and I slept with you thanks to Rebecca and her swimsuit... etc.
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Rebecca from the beginning of the story was portrayed as being a lot more bitchy-her own diva than we usually see of her now (like there was this whole sub thread of her being super spoiled around Ricardo, the doctor guy) and I think the message was supposed to be that Marlene really dug that/gravitated to that.
Lol I thought the message with Ricardo was that Rebecca is bi. Even though she's about to follow up the Ricardo flirtation by going from Bianca to Juliette, while fixated on one particular diva extraordinaire. I remember seeing Rebecca's interactions with the doctor and I just figured that like Marlene, Rebecca also has a diva-mode that gets activated for work related ambitions. And then when she is with Marlene, she alternates between a wide-eyed girl with a hopeless love and a strong, yet compassionate woman coming into her own.
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Also, what do you think is the mascara budget for those two? They must go through gallons of the stuff with all the crying and unexpected swimming that they do!
Haha, your comment made me laugh. It was the worst when Marlene was crying at No Limits - i don't think I've ever seen that much mascara run down someone's eyes. Like ever. And I once attended an outdoor wedding in the rain. I'm pretty sure we're not at the end of the crying just yet - Marlene looked ready to break down again as she's descending the stairs with Tristan and Rebecca on each side. I hope there's a way to get mascara off of a wedding dress.
Oops...I think I've turned a question-and-answer section into a full-on discussion section. Okay, will stick to only questions from now on. Must contain these Marbecca feels...