15.10.2012, 10:47
15.10.2012, 10:47
17.10.2012, 04:00
17.10.2012, 04:02
17.10.2012, 08:23
LolaRuns hat geschrieben:Ja aber ist nicht genau das traurig? Nur weil Menschen niedere Instinkte haben, ist es nicht trotzdem traurig wenn man immer genau in die Kerbe schlägt beziehungsweise dem entgegenarbeitet? Wenn das eben nicht als cleverer Aufhänger genutzt wird um die Feinheiten aufzuzeigen sondern eben nur platt? Genau das und nicht mehr? Weil genau dieses Platt sind für mich diese offshoot Artikel.
Das liest sich für mich als hätten die einen Artikel gedruckt "Achtung, Achtung, Frau hat Brüste!" und drunter ein Bild von einem Ausschnitt. Wozu ich sage, ja nett, aber sollte sich nicht langsam herumgesprochen haben dass Frauen mehr sind als Brüse und Lesben mehr sind als Knutschen? Ist das nicht genau dieses Voyeurverhalten was man ankreidet?
17.10.2012, 09:13
17.10.2012, 09:23
LolaRuns hat geschrieben:Naja aber diese "wie ist das Küssen jetzt genau" wird in der Regel bei Heteropaaren schon eher nur gefragt wenn es eben so wie bei Robert und Kirsten ist oder halt auch bei Dirk und Renée wo man weiß die sind real zusammen.
17.10.2012, 09:33
Heath Ledger und Jake Gyllenhaal mussten diese Frage nach Brokeback Mountain sicher auch ziemlich oft beantworten.
27.12.2012, 17:37
Married To a Man and In Love With a Woman
[...] It was 1979, the year that Donna Summer topped the charts with "Hot Stuff," and I had fallen in love with a close female friend, had an extramarital affair, lied about it and broken my marriage vows.
I felt like a stranger to myself. I discovered that I was capable of behaviors that were "not me." For the 12 years of my marriage, I had feared that there was something broken in me, that I was unable to fall in love, and now that was suddenly open to question. I was no longer the "me" I thought I knew. After all, I couldn't be a lesbian -- I was married to a man.
I was overwhelmed with guilt about deceiving and hurting the man I had grown up with since I was 13 years old, had married, and with whom I had raised our two daughters. While we had the usual relationship problems of any marriage, he was loving (in his own way), a good provider and a kind, loyal husband. We had the perfect marriage -- except that we had neither emotional intimacy nor good sex. Life felt bland, and I was restless and lonely in my marriage.
Then I met Karen -- an awesome lesbian, who was smart, funny, a powerhouse of will and personality, and cute! She occupied my daydreams far more than I chose to admit. I found myself awestruck by the red-gold of the leaves of the elm tree in Karen's yard that October, as we fed our curiosity about each other's lives, and sex became a natural outgrowth of our new romance. Although I didn't understand this kind of love, it was impossible not to act on it. It was 1979, and I'm not even sure I knew that a "straight" woman could fall in love with another woman. I thought I was the only married woman facing this kind of awakening. I was falling in love with a woman, but I didn't feel like a lesbian. (Does anyone know what a lesbian feels like?)
I began to lie about where I was going when Karen and I got together. My infidelity felt wrong, but my heart and my body were way ahead of my mind. When I revealed the truth to my husband, we decided to try couples therapy. I felt a strange sense of relief. The question about what to do with the rest of our lives hinged on my decision about whether to explore this awakened love for women. [...]
I vacillated constantly, deciding at one moment to stay and the next to leave. I was wracked with remorse and guilt. Finally, I just followed my gut. I may not have known how to identify my sexual orientation, but a powerful new experience of love was beckoning me to find out more.
[...]
I will face my guilt and use it as motivation to improve myself. At the time, it did not seem possible to forgive myself for my affair, the deceit, or the unraveling of my loved ones' lives. Finding compassion for other people was always easier. Yet I now know that when I am consumed by guilt, my authentic needs and desires are lost. So in order to love myself going forward, I must learn with compassion what was behind my behavior in order to accept it.
Before making decisions, I will face my fears. I learned that fear has a tricky way of clouding the truth and creating deceptive behaviors. During those early days, I avoided confrontation and change by lying to my husband and to myself. But by now I've figured out that avoidance usually creates more problems than the ones I've imagined.
[...]
Gesamter Artikel: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/joanne-fl ... 67892.html
30.01.2013, 20:48
Notes on a Fandom: International Girl of Fandom
[...] Verbotene Liebe (Forbidden Love) - Germany
The German soap, Verbotene Liebe, has featured many gay and lesbian storylines in its nearly 20-year run.
Currently, Verbotene Liebe has not one, but two storylines featuring gay couples. Christian and Ollie, VL’s resident gay fellas, and Marlene and Rebecca. Or, as fans know them, Marbecca.
The character of Rebecca, a fashion designer who has the cutest pixie cut this side of the Rhine, has been exploring and becoming comfortable with her sexuality for the last couple of years on VL. This past season, however, Rebecca fell head over heels for Marlene, a chanteuse and club owner, who looks like she may have been carved out of marble. The problem? Marlene is Rebecca’s brother Tristan’s girlfriend. How perfectly soapy! After friendship turns into flirting and smoldering looks for months, real feelings surface between Marlene and Rebecca during a game of spin the bottle. (Isn’t that how it always goes?) Eventually the women give into their feelings, but Tristan and Marlene soon become engaged and ask [Rebecca] to, you guessed it, design the wedding dress. Marlene finds she cannot go through with the wedding, however, and since then, she and Rebecca have been an item. Hopefully the relationship will continue to develop and give us more forbidden love to love. Verbotene Liebe airs weekdays on German Central Broadcasting (MDR). [...]
http://www.afterellen.com/content/2013/ ... irls-skins
21.02.2013, 09:43
TV-Traumpaar "Marbecca" erobert die Herzen
Die Serien-Stars Marlene und Rebecca aus der ARD-Seifenoper "Verbotene Liebe", von ihren Fans liebevoll "Marbecca" genannt, leisten weltweit Coming-out-Hilfe.
Auch wenn es nicht das erste lesbische Serien-Paar ist, "Marbecca" haben etwas, was andere nicht hatten: Fans aus 44 Ländern der Erde, die über das Internet miteinander verbunden sind und sich auch persönlich miteinander vernetzen. L-MAG-Autorin Karin Schupp hat hinter die Kulissen des "Marbecca"-Hypes geblickt.
http://www.l-mag.de/zum-heft.html
15.03.2013, 13:44
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